sexta-feira, 31 de outubro de 2008


Sometimes i'm home, Sometimes i'm in love, Sometimes i'm dreaming, Sometimes i go crazy, Sometimes i'm happy, Sometimes never mind!

Love, why?!

Some things Never change...*

segunda-feira, 27 de outubro de 2008

quarta-feira, 22 de outubro de 2008

MEN

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you Any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll absolutely cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you .

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.



[OPRAH WINFREY]

terça-feira, 21 de outubro de 2008

Diante de mim havia duas estradas...

Eu escolhi a menos percorrida, e isso fez toda a diferença.


=)

segunda-feira, 20 de outubro de 2008

"E mesmo a mais perfeita das armaduras

revela as fraquezas de quem a veste: a de D.Sebastião tinha apenas um só testículo."


[Serão então as fraquezas os antónimos das forças, ou serão ambas uma e a mesma coisa?!]

domingo, 19 de outubro de 2008

A raça humana

anda sempre a olhar para trás, para o passado, à procura da cauda perdida na evolução. Por isso o homem não olha para o futuro e agarra.se ao que foi ( e ao que não foi, mas podia ter sido, ou que gostaria que dele os outros pensassem).

[Pepetela in A geração da Utopia]

Desfazer de certas lembranças

significa também Abrir Espaço para que Outras tomem o seu Lugar! *

terça-feira, 14 de outubro de 2008

Grandes Verdades

"The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous."

[Carrie, in Sex & the City]

Eu:

sem corantes nem conservantes.

[Me, i'm Me. One thing, one piece, one person...All together!]

Tudo o que alguém tem para si mesmo...

... aquilo que o acompanha na solidão e que ninguém lhe pode dar ou tirar, é muito mais essencial do que tudo o que tem e do que representa perante os olhos alheios.

[Schopenhauer]

domingo, 12 de outubro de 2008

Never take someone for granted...

Hold every person close to your heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you've lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones...

sexta-feira, 10 de outubro de 2008

SOMETIMES

what we want is exactly what we need!

'Nunca te ofereceram um desejo

sem te darem, ao mesmo tempo, o poder de o tornares realidade. Contudo, é provável que tenhas de lutar por ele.'

[Richard Bach, Ilusões]

quarta-feira, 8 de outubro de 2008

"Turn a spark to a flame

make a wish, close your eyes, won't you start... all over again...”

'Like I said

disappearances happen. Pains go phantom. Blood stops running and people.. people fade away'

terça-feira, 7 de outubro de 2008

segunda-feira, 6 de outubro de 2008

Once upon a time, happier ever after.

The stories we tell are the stuff of dreams. Fairy tales don't come true. Reality is much stormier. Much murkier. Much scarier.



[in Grey's Anatomy]

sexta-feira, 3 de outubro de 2008